Is it possible to enjoy bar prep?
It’s one of the dryest things a person can do on this planet. (Don’t invite space tourists to try this.) But we retain more and pay more attention when things are enjoyable.
The default, typical, boring approach to bar prep involves sitting still like a statue watching people in a suit drone on as you fantasize about throwing yourself out the window (not your computer though…you already paid the exam laptop fees).
If you’re especially masochistic, you’ll pause the video and make sure to fill in all the lecture notes because you think your Barbri books will be a fine addition to your future library.
This is all surprisingly exhausting.
As a bonus, you’ll also forget 99% of what you listened to. I’d rather watch water boil because at least I’d have something to show for it, like edible pasta.
Something people forget to tell you is that you don’t actually have to follow the default.
“Just complete the course! Do all the things! Play it safe and you’ll be fine!”—The National Association of Barbri (probably)
It feels good because you can’t get anything wrong when you’re just absorbing information. You won’t taste defeat, but you won’t taste victory either.
In fact, the longer you avoid the pain up front, the harder you might fall. It’s also less effective and enjoyable.
Instead of playing defense, it’s time to go on offense.
You can enjoy the process in order to maintain motivation when it comes to bar prep.
Ultimately, you can have fun with anything. It’s a mindset.
Bar prep can be enjoyable if you go at your own pace and get better at it. And if it isn’t fun, you can just enjoy not having fun!
Follow this visual guide of 6 things that can help you make steady progress and enjoy bar prep — without the frustration and exhaustion that come with the default approach to studying for the bar exam.
(4th one is my favorite!)
1. Learn by example.
Limit “theory” and seek “application.”
Yes, of course you’ll want to brush up on the law before you try to use it. Have foundational working knowledge.
But learning Spanish and speaking it with a native are two different things. A lion in a zoo can read as much as he wants about being a lion in the wild. But he’ll never get the full experience until he’s released in the wild.
The more you raise the issues and use the rules in context, the more you’ll gain intuition.
See how the issues and rules play out in real scenarios. An example of how a rule is used is worth a thousand words explaining the rule.
I counted that as a “visual” lol. Real ones coming up 👇🏻
2. Knowing the law means knowing the issues.
Issues are where everything starts. When you know the issues, you can “check” through them so you don’t miss any in your essays.
If you only know the rules, you’ll be lost trying to fit them in randomly, like when you try to force a joke that only makes sense to you and people pretend to chuckle even though they didn’t get it.
If you love the rules so much, why don’t you marry them?! (Now that’s a forced joke.)
3. Test yourself against past bar exam questions.
The ghosts of questions past will guide you. You’ll be haunted by similar questions on the bar exam.
Stop watching other kids play outside while you sit still by the window watching some dude drone on at 50% normal speaking speed. As the kids say nowadays, “Touch grass.”
Get out there and practice as if it were the real thing, and do the real thing as if it were practice. The bar exam tests whether you can resolve problems, not just memorize a bunch of words you can’t remember under pressure.
You might fall and scrape your knees, but at least you’ll be able to ride a bike and feel the wind blowing at your face.
4. Get things wrong.
The realization of the correct issue, rule, or answer after getting it wrong is EXCITING, not depressing. It’s these “aha” moments that stay with you.
From there, you’ll start to get things right. Defeat is fodder for your victory.
This is how I remembered an issue I missed in an essay the first time:
5. It’s OK if you’re not confident about the bar exam.
“Oh, but my confidence level… I need to be cOnFiDenT”
THIS SHIT IS HARD. It’s natural to feel anxious and overwhelmed. It’s why I have a whole mini-course on organizing your emotions.
Confidence can be a symptom of competence. But it can also be a sign that you don’t know what you don’t know.
The point isn’t to be confident or read promises about ease and confidence that lull you into false security. The point is to become competent—and pass.
Two parts to that:
- Become—this is a process. The bar exam isn’t easy, but it’s doable with the right approach for you. You WILL get better with the right approach, like all these bar takers.
- Competent—this isn’t about how you feel. It’s more about what you do with practice questions and how solving these limited-universe questions ultimately becomes predictable and second nature to you on the bar exam.
Minimal competence doesn’t mean the bare minimum. It means the amount needed to pass the exam.
Perhaps part of confidence is knowing you don’t need to seek confidence. Competence will lead to confidence as a side effect anyway.
Most people who end up passing aren’t coming out of the exam smug and “confident.” In fact, they’re more nervous than the people who fail. People don’t pass based on their confidence. You don’t need to be confident to pass the bar exam.
This is interesting: According to this Harvard Business Review article,
“Lower self-confidence makes you pay attention to negative feedback and be self-critical . . . To be the very best at anything, you will need to be your harshest critic, and that is almost impossible when your starting point is high self-confidence. Exceptional achievers always experience low levels of confidence and self-confidence, but they train hard and practice continually until they reach an acceptable level of competence. Indeed, success is the best medicine for your insecurities.”
“Lower self-confidence can motivate you to work harder and prepare more: If you are serious about your goals, you will have more incentive to work hard when you lack confidence in your abilities. In fact, low confidence is only demotivating when you are not serious about your goals.“
You’re serious about passing the bar exam. Aren’t you?
The way to become confident is to give yourself evidence.
You can’t think your way to confidence.
Other people can’t give you confidence. You’ll say you “needed this today,” but their thoughtless platitudes will make you feel even worse later, as if you ate a bunch of candy.
“When you see a kid in the park, they’re not looking at a slide and thinking, ‘I have a lot of internal fears about this slide. I don’t want to go down it and look like an imposter slider.’ . . .
They just slide down it and see what happens.” [Credit: Ramit Sethi]
6. Redo practice questions.
Almost no one sees the value in redoing questions!
This is an underrated strategy that confirms whether you understand the tested concept and makes it less likely for you to forget it. The bar exam tests you within a finite universe. Most of what you’ll see has already been tested.
How to retain information for the long term:
There’s also value in taking breaks to help you memorize.
“But I’ll know what the answer is!”
And?
Getting questions right because you’ve seen them before is the WHOLE POINT of “preparation.”
You can at least slam dunk THOSE questions so that you can spend your most valuable resource—attention—on new and tricky questions that the bar examiners come out with every year.
BONUS. Things will get better if you water the bamboo consistently.
It’s often a week or two before the exam when things finally start to click.
So if you’re stressing over not improving much for the first several weeks, your efforts are not wasted. The bamboo shoots up overnight all at once. Keep watering the bamboo.
(This is one of the mental shifts you learn in Mental Engines, my mini-course on organizing your mental and emotional state for the bar exam.)
A gréât reminder that becoming confident is part of the process, and to enjoy that process!