“Why do things have to be so hard?”
Maybe right now you’re feeling like the future is uncertain and you’re stressed and you’re screaming on the inside and blah blah blah.
Rule 1: Bar prep sucks.
Rule 2: You’ll have to deal with even worse things if you pass the bar.
Picky clients, taking on legal responsibility for everything, unlimited vacation days that never actually happen because of billables that everyone hates, etc. I’m about to faint just thinking about this.
Tired of learning? You’re going to become a professional learner and problem solver. The bar exam doesn’t test a lot of relevant skills, but it does test your ability to learn and work with different things.
Wow! Thank you for pointing out our harsh reality. Give me back my dreams and excitement right now.
But I’m not saying this to paint a grim future. You could be “stuck,” but you don’t have to feel stuck.
Continue reading “How to Handle Bar Prep Stress”
What do you think of this…
- “We’re all in this together”
- “You’re not alone”
- “With everyone gathered together, we finally stand a chance against the final boss”
All very good? I guess?
Feeling like you’re part of a crusade against “them” can be uplifting and inspiriting.
I don’t say these things out loud, but I’m basically guilty of it. Trying to make the prepping process more palatable for you. Feeling like I did something helpful when you tell me things like “I needed this today.”
But I have mixed feelings about letting comforting words wash over you like a warm shower TOO much. The bar exam is considered difficult for a reason.
And you know me… I live in practical reality. The more you make the exam a priority (see MTYLT rule #3), the more I’m willing to help. I don’t JUST want to tell you what you WANT to hear.
Here’s what you NEED to hear instead:
Continue reading ““We’re all in this together”?”
Maybe it’s the last two weeks before the bar exam and you just started prepping for it.
Maybe your bar prep course FINALLY let you go off to do your thing and it’s a mess to sift through.
Maybe you have a full-time job and got some time off and everything is riding on this exam.
Whatever the case, you may be left with a bunch of law you don’t know how to actually USE in the exam.
You’d love to start practicing essays and MBE questions but feel like you just haven’t learned enough law yet.
How are you supposed to learn all this when time is tight? How do you prioritize the massive body of rules to know?
Continue reading “Learning and Prioritizing Rules to Know for the Bar Exam”
- Learn not just the rules but also how to present the issues
- Highest-priority issues and rules are those that have appeared in the past (there are two other categories)
- There are efficient and effective ways to hit both of the above at once