Weeks and months of insanity preparing for the bar exam while putting life on hold. The onslaught of psychologically tormenting questions. Dealing with issues (and making up rules) you didn’t even know existed.
It’s over. Hard to believe, isn’t it?
The hard-fought battle has ended. The dust has settled. There’s nothing left. No rewards. Just… palpable silence (filled only with “How did you do? Oh wow, I’m sure you passed!!”) and an empty space in your heart. What were you fighting for this whole time?
Now yet another difficult part called “waiting” begins. It might be harder than the actual prep. After the shell shock that was the bar exam, what do you do?
What is “free time” again? Is it edible? Will life be the same?
How do you feel like a normal person again after taking the bar exam? How do you deal with the void in you?
This is all very normal. Breaking up with someone you know isn’t right for you can still hurt and leave you empty. We get attached to the struggle.
Some people seem to be completely happy with this state of being, while others get post-bartum depression. Let’s recover from your mixed feelings and bring life back to normal.
Here are 21 ideas on what to do to stay sane (and a few things NOT to do) if you have post bar exam depression (ideas that have nothing to do with studying for the exam “just in case” even though the bar exam is over).
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